Motivation

<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiz097weH3W82CicOgtT-KEUzHv6V8es24gv6iRRMAnrSfCWBhbxFlT8WPUFQA87ozGoWfxYA07uOzeEJ76Othwb5_8Kw8FwfvcJP8kUtFhjfY1qN7e1AIaoJqt073F6gUQsuSiA4M3Zi8/s1600-h/Marilyn_Monroe_Hollywood_1952_H353_IMA.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5438916192983603874" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiz097weH3W82CicOgtT-KEUzHv6V8es24gv6iRRMAnrSfCWBhbxFlT8WPUFQA87ozGoWfxYA07uOzeEJ76Othwb5_8Kw8FwfvcJP8kUtFhjfY1qN7e1AIaoJqt073F6gUQsuSiA4M3Zi8/s400/Marilyn_Monroe_Hollywood_1952_H353_IMA.jpg" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 363px; height: 286px;" /></a><span style="font-size:85%;">I'm starting a workout video. Right now. Well, once I finish this blog I'll be gettin' my workout on! Which is a really good thing. I've gotta get back into shape! These past two weeks I've been pretty depressed with everything that has happened. Which has lead to a lot of sleeping, laziness and lots of fast food, cookie and ice cream eating. But I'm starting to feel much better so it's time to start looking better. That's my plan anyway.<br /><br /></span><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiswgoXE1CNNORxi671pHLIiAYlmLbLcN9utIOErXqBKRPnygDBmEsy5vf585YAlIsWSvfDB6AOo7atstwFv8a0_DBmjwjFA8wQwWTMd3QfUYrhwKtIXpaa7xKT6OW5HXIC8gGNiQ2rWXc/s1600-h/0904+west+hollywood+020.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5438916843714903138" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiswgoXE1CNNORxi671pHLIiAYlmLbLcN9utIOErXqBKRPnygDBmEsy5vf585YAlIsWSvfDB6AOo7atstwFv8a0_DBmjwjFA8wQwWTMd3QfUYrhwKtIXpaa7xKT6OW5HXIC8gGNiQ2rWXc/s400/0904+west+hollywood+020.jpg" style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 168px; height: 224px;" /></a><span style="font-size:85%;">I always feel better once I get started working out. It's just getting started that is so hard. But I've got extra motivation now. I got invited out to L.A. next week with Sleeperkids World for a week of working, relaxation and fun. I'm a little nervous to go, I haven't been around people lately and I've been so sad. Plus, I feel so out of shape and don't have much confidence to work right now. However, a trip to L.A. with some good friends and a little work seems to be just what I need to help me get back to my happy cheery self again. If I workout everyday this week and don't pig out on the goodies, I'll feel better and be more confident to go. Plus, I am really excited to see my friends and have a good time! So, here it goes...workout plan: day 1, begin!</span>

Motivation

I'm starting a workout video. Right now. Well, once I finish this blog I'll be gettin' my workout on! Which is a really good thing. I've gotta get back into shape! These past two weeks I've been pretty depressed with everything that has happened. Which has lead to a lot of sleeping, laziness and lot…

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Recovering...

<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQjAxjjiAdXwz3uhky03wQKNjs7EOk445W9XtLi-myReVMIEPXk5A1qJmHPirrUglTl6kqb8F_VBiEqfNhhLKgI2eMUEKT-La3lvtDPC0o6eWf7nbIbQCvbWUVAZNDJeKnJxHCzf__wm0/s1600-h/IMG_1046.JPG"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5436982510895654546" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjQjAxjjiAdXwz3uhky03wQKNjs7EOk445W9XtLi-myReVMIEPXk5A1qJmHPirrUglTl6kqb8F_VBiEqfNhhLKgI2eMUEKT-La3lvtDPC0o6eWf7nbIbQCvbWUVAZNDJeKnJxHCzf__wm0/s400/IMG_1046.JPG" style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 210px; height: 400px;" /></a><span style="font-size:85%;">Right before Christmas I discovered I was pregnant. Pregnant! Me. I was with child, going to have a baby. How did this happen!? Okay...I know how it happened, but it wasn't planned. I was shocked! I was not planning on having a baby anytime soon. My boyfriend Josh and I had just gotten back together after a short separation and were just starting to rebuild our relationship. I was really worried what adding the stress of pregnancy would do to it. Plus, I would have to change jobs. I was so stressed and felt so lost.<br /><br />I thought about abortion, but I couldn't accept not having a baby that Josh and I created together. Plus, I have always wanted to be a mom. I love kids! But, I made sure to take plenty of time to think about things before making any decisions. After the holidays Josh and I were more relaxed and realized how much we wanted this baby. We were doing great and our relationship was getting stronger every day. We were so happy and super excited to be parents! I was really looking forward to being pregnant and becoming a mom! I couldn't wait to see what our baby would look like.<br /><br />It was all so exciting, until I got the saddest news I've ever heard...The doctor told me that my baby did not have a heartbeat. It was no longer growing.<br /></span><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjK6tOuBPH19ih8ycURjxne7qWf2MEnyypmOrw6BrJHh-Cb7vD4iLdgn2l5R3FtgHsVNFPRgYMPvgisxEmGXczUE2mtz3N0DwhqYD1SasgKVXaPfrLqK_hXoaB6Xsl1MgibEXNNzRlhWJE/s1600-h/IMG_1045a.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5436982923259525362" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjK6tOuBPH19ih8ycURjxne7qWf2MEnyypmOrw6BrJHh-Cb7vD4iLdgn2l5R3FtgHsVNFPRgYMPvgisxEmGXczUE2mtz3N0DwhqYD1SasgKVXaPfrLqK_hXoaB6Xsl1MgibEXNNzRlhWJE/s400/IMG_1045a.jpg" style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 234px; height: 400px;" /></a><span style="font-size:85%;">I was at a doctor's appointment and the exam was going well until it was </span><span style="font-size:85%;">time to listen for the heartbeat...there wasn't one. I was in complete shock. Josh was too. The doctor explained to us that the fetus had stopped growing. A major organ probably failed to develop somewhere and my body stopped the process. The doc was really nice and explained it was not my fault and there was nothing I could've done. But I can't explain to you how it felt. I did not realize how excited I actually was to have a baby until the moment I was told I was not going to have one anymore. I was crushed!</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;">I had surgery the next day. A D&C procedure. Which is where the cervix is dilated and everything is sucked and scraped out, all the tissue and everything. It really creeps me out to think about it. </span><span style="font-size:85%;">I was put out for it, thank god. I woke up in a daze with pain in my belly, but the morphine I was given took care of that! I was sent home with some pain killers so I spent the rest of the night pretty out of it too. I stayed in bed the next few days with horrible stomach cramps. The heating pad became my new best friend and I had to try not to complain all the time about having to wear a diaper. It was so not fun!</span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><br />What was great though, was my boyfriend and the support of my family and few close friends that knew what was going on. Josh has been extremely wonderful through all of this! He's been taking such great care of me! He has been so strong and helped me continually feel loved and comforted. I couldn't imagine going through this without him! This whole experience has definitely brought us closer together and added strength to our relationship. I'm really happy to have him in my life and love him very much. He is going to be a wonderful father some day :)<br /><br /></span><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhiFmwlvrAPipGg7jOi16aGKenbOCGT4yH7rmatJ-wqMAK86v60h8sgUw4MX66bJo4L7ZM3nkWiKRd7VCIcLBrzUmvUKRBY0kVuvykaxDng0-5lWy7AFSPjUOFpAI6zT_dCKnfGY6Evi64/s1600-h/T2-010w.jpg"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5436984988153711586" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhiFmwlvrAPipGg7jOi16aGKenbOCGT4yH7rmatJ-wqMAK86v60h8sgUw4MX66bJo4L7ZM3nkWiKRd7VCIcLBrzUmvUKRBY0kVuvykaxDng0-5lWy7AFSPjUOFpAI6zT_dCKnfGY6Evi64/s400/T2-010w.jpg" style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 334px; height: 278px;" /></a><span style="font-size:85%;">I see the doctor for a check up today, so hopefully he'll give me two thumbs up on everything. Physically, I'm starting to feel much better. Emotionally however, I am up and down. Sadness comes in waves and I'm not sure what direction to go in now. Most of the time I want to hide under the covers and not leave my bed. But on the bright side, I do have an overall positive outlook on everything. I believe this happened for a reason, and although I might not understand it now, it is all for the best. Although I'm super sad right now, things will get better soon. I'll be a mom one day and it will be awesome. It's just not the right time now.<br /><br />For now, I'm just going to take it easy and focus on recovering.</span>..

Recovering...

Right before Christmas I discovered I was pregnant. Pregnant! Me. I was with child, going to have a baby. How did this happen!? Okay...I know how it happened, but it wasn't planned. I was shocked! I was not planning on having a baby anytime soon. My boyfriend Josh and I had just gotten back together…

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Catching up!

For those of you who do follow my blog...I am sorry for not posting in the last few months. I have had a lot going on in my little life and once I got far enough behind in writing blogs, I just stopped posting all together. I did however, keep a journal of everything going on. So...now that I've decided to start posting again, I'll be adding blogs from the past, as well as new blogs with what's going on with me now. So, please stay tuned while I play catch up...

Catching up!

For those of you who do follow my blog...I am sorry for not posting in the last few months. I have had a lot going on in my little life and once I got far enough behind in writing blogs, I just stopped posting all together. I did however, keep a journal of everything going on. So...now that I've dec…

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